I have a 26-year-old neurotypical daughter and a 24-year-old daughter who was diagnosed with autism when she was 3. In 2004, no one knew what autism was and there were zero resources to help parents navigate a maze of treatments, education, or nutrition. That time in my life included two divorces and losing my life savings in the 2008 market collapse. In 2007, I married for the second time. In 2012, I got divorced for the second time. Please know that no matter what happens—what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.